Dirty Weekend

Recreate the scene of a stripper bar in the privacy of your own home for an interesting dirty weekend.

Get hold of a pole dancing pole and put it up at your house, lower the lights and choose some nice tunes to get yourself in the mood. There are plenty of youtube poledancing videos to give you a few ideas for moves. My tip would be to avoid anything too athletic those are more for the people that think of a pole dance as a sport rather than an erotic experience.

The pole you choose could be the cheap and cheerful peekaboo pole or the more versatile, stronger x pole which will be good enough to use for the ‘exercise’ type of dance if you want to move on to that. DO NOT try any lifts or spins on a peekaboo pole, they really are just for walking around and looking sexy.

Most poles can be put up in a matter of minutes without leaving any mark on the floor or ceiling.

For this dirty weekend idea to really work, you will need to focus more on setting the mood than on the dancing. The lighting and music need to recreate the feel of an actual club for this roleplay scenario to really work.

Get you partner to sit in a chair at a table with a drink in his hand, let the musci play a bit before you make your entry - this will add to the anticipation.

Invest in some new, sexy shoes and clothes for the evening - think of it as a disguise to help you to get into character. I’ve been told a hat is a great way to hide nervousness and keep up confidence.

Be confident as you strut your stuff - it can only have a happy ending, even if the dance is rubbish the clothes and atmosphere will be enough to ensure a fantastic evening.